A lesbians friend b'day
So I went to an old friends birthday. She came out quite a few years ago and to be honest I haven't kept in touch with her that much. Not because she's a lesbian, just because.
Anyway, I was kind of dreading the whole thing, because I think lesbians can be quite clicky, but hey that might be just my silly built up in my mind perception, also I always imagine them to be quite hard core into their culture and well I just wouldn't have much in common with them. Anyway, the bash wasn't too bad, it was held at her and her girlfriends house and they had family and friends there. I kind of stuck to the family, maybe that was silly of me, but the family were really nice and down- to-earth. So that made it all that more comfortable. To be honest as I said in a previous post, I hate crowded bars and restaurants and maybe that's why I wasn't as keen to go to N birthday last time, because it was a huge hardcore birthday with drag queens etc and well I'll like smaller, quite, low key gatherings. Anyway, I told N that I do find the lesbians seem to have there own click and I don't always feel like I'm welcome in their world.
Anyway, N new girlfriends seemed really nice. I wonder if she was a bit insecure, because when N came outside to bid me farewell, we were reminising about old times for quite a while. Anyway N's girlfriend came out after a while, probably wondering why N was taking so long. Anyway, she found us and she was all cuddly and touchy feely with N, and I was wondering if she was threatened - lol! He he! Anyway, seems N in a good place and seems happy. I just hope her girlfriend becomes more comfortable in her own skin, she's so quite and needs to feel secure with herself. Although, I'm sure it's not easy being a lesbian from what N told me - they cop a lot of slack for being different.
Anyway, I was kind of dreading the whole thing, because I think lesbians can be quite clicky, but hey that might be just my silly built up in my mind perception, also I always imagine them to be quite hard core into their culture and well I just wouldn't have much in common with them. Anyway, the bash wasn't too bad, it was held at her and her girlfriends house and they had family and friends there. I kind of stuck to the family, maybe that was silly of me, but the family were really nice and down- to-earth. So that made it all that more comfortable. To be honest as I said in a previous post, I hate crowded bars and restaurants and maybe that's why I wasn't as keen to go to N birthday last time, because it was a huge hardcore birthday with drag queens etc and well I'll like smaller, quite, low key gatherings. Anyway, I told N that I do find the lesbians seem to have there own click and I don't always feel like I'm welcome in their world.
Anyway, N new girlfriends seemed really nice. I wonder if she was a bit insecure, because when N came outside to bid me farewell, we were reminising about old times for quite a while. Anyway N's girlfriend came out after a while, probably wondering why N was taking so long. Anyway, she found us and she was all cuddly and touchy feely with N, and I was wondering if she was threatened - lol! He he! Anyway, seems N in a good place and seems happy. I just hope her girlfriend becomes more comfortable in her own skin, she's so quite and needs to feel secure with herself. Although, I'm sure it's not easy being a lesbian from what N told me - they cop a lot of slack for being different.
posted by lychee at 2:25 AM
1 Comments:
I know what you mean with the lesbians, I feel weird too and I know some really nice ones. When they are on their own they just be themselves but as a group I see some like to try the masculine thing and some still do the feminine but with the feminist thing and it just doesn't work.
My gay male friends are either girlie man or just man man, err I don't make sense but know how you feel.
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